Family Centered Friday

Something new for our family.  I have loved participating in Amanda’s {this moment}, so much so that I found I wanted to share more.  I will continue to participate in Amanda’s weekly offering of special memories.  In addition to sharing a special moment (or moments) from the previous week, I’d like to also share our plans for the weekend, or the coming week. It’s evolving.  Once I’ve got it all worked out, maybe you’ll want to share your Family Centered Friday thoughts with us and our readers, too.  For now, here are a couple of pictures from our week::


Josie gets a smooch from big brother Louis.

This weekend Brian and I will be attending the NOFA Mass Winter Conference for a little inspiration as we wait for the State to issue their final approval on the farm.  And there is sure to be LOTS of time spent in the newly fallen snow in the yard – snowfamilies, forts, and who-knows-what other creations.  And playing in the snow always means hot cocoa on the stove.  Here’s our recipe::

  • 1 c. good quality cocoa powder
  • 2 c. organic sugar
  • 1/2 tsp. salt
  • 1 1/3 c. boiling water
  • 1 gallon milk
  • 1 T. vanilla
  • Combine cocoa powder, sugar and salt and pour into a very large heavy-bottomed pot.  Add boiling water and stir over medium heat until the sugar has dissolved.  Slowly add the milk, stirring all the time.  Heat through, add vanilla.  Serve in special mugs and pass the marshmallows!

**you can substitute orange or mint extracts, or drop in a cinnamon stick for a change of flavour.  Or add a little peppermint schnapps or coffee liqueur for a grown-up treat!**

Have a beautiful weekend with your precious family!


Toward Beauty in 2011:: A Resolution

This year I want to do something new. Several somethings new. And rather than publish a litany of resolutions, perhaps it would be better, and more realistic, to share them – and implement them – over time, possibly the whole year.

One of those things is to rely more heavily on my heavenly family to help me with this most important ministry to my family, my magnum opus as a dear friend has so aptly named it. I was gifted with a headstrong, perfectionist personality. And also with a very full, imperfect life. The two battle mightily with each other and do the work of forming me into a more beautiful creation. Like a piece of metal at the Master’s forge. Though I rather think of my self more as a silver serving bowl than a gleaming sword. Empty, and waiting to be filled with good things for others to be nourished by.

So today, on the Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God, I thought it appropriate to enlist her help. She is first among the disciples, and was given, at the foot of the cross, to be the mother of all. Who better, then, to beg help from? I found this beautiful prayer of consecration about one week before Joséphine was born, when I was experiencing terrible fear about her impending birth. It is contained in a tiny little book I bought at the Abbey, compiled by Fr. Francis Coomes.

This act of consecration can be made for any child of any age, though originally intended for a baby. We will be using it for all eight of our living children. I hope that you will be inspired to do the same::

Holy Mary, Mother of God and mother of all the faithful, I place my little child [NAME] under your motherly protection. To you I completely consecrate my child, body and soul. Take him/her under your care and keep him always. Protect him in his infancy and keep him sound in body and mind. Guard his youth and keep his heart pure, his thoughts ever holy and directed to God and the things of God. Protect him always throughout life – in his joys and sorrows, in his successes and failures, in his dealings with others. Always and in all things be a true mother to him, Mary, and preserve him. I commend him entirely to you.

Remember, Mother Mary, that through this act of consecration, he becomes in a special way, your child as well as mine: guard him and keep him as your very own. Amen.

{this moment}

Tea time for James

{this moment} – A Friday ritual. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you’re inspired to do the same, leave a link to your ‘moment’ at SouleMama for all to find and see.

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